Slow to Judge...a fast-paced and convicting read

David Capes has written a book that will absolutely hurt you to read.  Slow to Judge:  Sometimes its Okay to Listen starts with a focus on a phrase that Solomon used in requesting wisdom from God -- he wanted a "listening heart."  That phrase serves as the foundation for the rest of his book; and if that is not convicting enough, he hits your hard when he discusses pride.  That chapter hammers (and I mean hammers) you as it exposes the reason we are so quick to judge others -- our pride as manifested in the desire to be right or superior to others.  If we are going to have any type of conversation with others, it cannot be a debate (which is prideful).  Instead, we need deep, abiding relationships that come through humility, love, and grace.

 Capes shares his own growth in this area by a radio talk show involving him, a rabbi, and a father.  He makes a wonderful statement that he uses later on -- we can agree to disagree but we cannot ever become disagreeable.  That phrase becomes critical when he discusses "toleration" as used in the modern world, and it is not true toleration.  He offers a critical point that toleration really has a hidden agenda -- protecting my beliefs and my power at the expense of yours.  This section was hugely important as it exposes the agenda of the left and right -- neither side is really interested in listening to the other because they just want their way (uh, isn't that pride?).  It is much easier to throw around words like "bigot" or "prejudiced" rather than stopping to really understand the position held by the other person.

The last two chapters were somewhat strange in my opinion.  I've already let someone borrow this book and will need to go back through them because I, honestly, did not understand what he was trying to there.  As I did not comprehend them on the first read, they seemed to weaken the overall strength of the book.  He did not have a great deal of Biblical exegesis but he had sufficient Biblical explanation to give you an "aha" moment on certain passages.

Considering all the name-calling and stereo-typing of Christians that is occurring in our modern world, this book offers a refreshing read on how to counter-act those trends. 

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