How God
Makes Men by Patrick
Morley is a quick and easy read for those wishing to learn more about
developing men. The beauty of Morley’s
book on the opportunities facing men is that he turns to the Bible – not the
world’s wisdom -- for the inadequate display of manhood in our culture. Knowing that he has written other books (primarily
The Man in the Mirror) and founded an organization in 1991 that bears
the name of that first book, I expected shameless plugs for the company
throughout. I was pleasantly surprised that
he did not do so. In fact, the only
mention that I could find of his company is in the “About the Author” section.
While I will
discuss some shortcomings of this work, the idea of how God makes men is vital
to changing our culture. The secondary
lines of the title tell the full story: “Ten
Epic Stories. Ten Proven
Principles. One Huge Promise for Your
Life.” Wait! What’s the huge promise for our lives? The author states it this way in his
preface: “If you will absorb and embrace
the timeless principles offered by these ten men, you can get past the shallow
cultural Christianity that wants to gut your manhood and get to – or back to –
a more biblical Christianity” (xiii).
Shallowness is synonymous with complacency, and neither of those
strategies develops men. It takes
leadership to develop into a man as described in the Bible.
This book is
important because we live in a society where the idea of manhood is being
assaulted. Stop for just a moment to
pause and think about how men are portrayed in modern society, particularly on
television. Men are type-cast as weak, immoral,
and partying goofballs that are more interested in abdicating responsibility. The unfortunate aspect is that men are “living
down” to these expectations. Rather than
rising to the challenge, men are choosing the easy path. Instead of doing what is right, the choice is
made to do what they want in the here and now – rather than thinking about the
future.
The focus on
all forms of entertainment (such as watching sports or video games) devalues
the importance of responsibility and preparation for manhood as complacency is
enjoyed. Do you need proof? Look at the results posted by the Entertainment
Software Rating Board: (1) the average “gamer”
is 34 years old, (2) the average age of the “most frequent game purchaser” is
39 years old, and (3) adult gamers have been playing video games for an average
of 12 years. Commercials for the newest
games or game systems are filled with adult, male players; and that demographic
clearly matches the averages above. While
I am not arguing against video games, I am arguing that time spent playing
video games has a significant familial and societal opportunity cost.
In turning back to the tenets of Morley’s
book, the author provides a series of ten Biblical men and extrapolates
principals from each of their lives. At
the end of every chapter, he provides 3 discussion or reflection questions that
drive the reader to a deeper application of the principle. Morley studies Abraham, Joseph, Moses, Gideon, Job, David, Solomon, Nehemiah, Peter, and Paul.
As far as a critique of Morley’s book,
I have two issues. The first, which is
more significant than the other, rests in this question: if the author wants men to exemplify
Biblical Christianity, then why did he not mention Jesus as the foundation of
Christianity? I believe he missed a
tremendous opportunity explain Christianity and showcase Jesus as both a
teacher and leader. Real men love others
in such a way that they are willing to sacrifice self for the benefit of the
loved one. Christ did that for us when
He bore our sins on the cross. Further,
since modern men need to know how God makes men, why not highlight how Jesus worked
with His disciples. He chose typical men
in that society, challenged the norms of culture, shaped them into strong
leaders that repudiated complacency, and then commissioned them to (in the
power of God) turn the world upside down.
The second critique focuses solely
upon his chapter on Gideon, and I must admit an immediate bias – my dissertation
considered Gideon through the lens of leadership. Morley missed another opportunity to
challenge complacency of men, and he did so by stopping too soon in the story
of Gideon. The author focused on the
rosy, amazing, and unexpected things Gideon did by obeying God; yet, Gideon
became complacent and left a horrible legacy.
If men every stop applying the principles of God by going their own
path, then disaster is on the horizon. Again,
Morley’s intent was to challenge shallow and cultural Christianity but that is
the very trap into which Gideon fell.
I do believe this book is worth a
read and consideration; however, I would urge any reader to spend time studying
the Scripture surrounding these men. Anytime
that a human filter is utilized in writing about the Bible, some important
truths end up missing. In challenging complacent
manhood through Biblical leadership, seek to understand God’s redemptive plan
that incorporated these characters.
To lead as a man, we must go to the only One
who existed before time and created the world.
God, alone, has the right to rule the world; and He will do so as the Righteous Judge. That, my friends, is real leadership
that men need to study and apply.
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